Just like you, I was frustrated and tired.  

For too many years, my husband and I stayed stuck in a negative cycle that kept us apart for way too long! 

My Story...

My husband and I have always gotten along a lot of the time, but we also had this cycle of fighting, not talking about it, not repairing and just kind of slinking back together without resolving anything. 

And eventually the fighting became more frequent and it was impacting all the other areas of our life.  It was too much and something had to change or it was only going to keep getting worse. 

But my husband didn't want to do couples therapy...

So I had to make the decision to do something, and that's what I did.  Because I didn't want more of the same.... or for things to get worse with time. 

I never would have thought...

that a few years ago that we would be where we are now.  The difference is night and day.  And it's not just my relationship that is different--it's me.  I am not the same person I was when I started this process.  

So now, no one walks on eggshells, we talk about things when they come up and we don't hold grudges.   

Can you imagine?